The situation is classic—he pursues you, so you lean in. You become like a dog with a bone, unwilling to relinquish what you want.
They actually get a thrill watching you suffer over (yet continue to endure) their inconsistent and rude behavior.See: keeping up with the news, hating political statuses, you get it.Actively avoiding making choices seems like laziness, but really it's a high stakes mind-fuck where everybody avoids saying anything remotely definitive or making eye contact (pretend texting is a major player here) until eventually someone caves and decides what the rest of the group does.become a giant game of “pass the responsibility” so no one has to pull the trigger and make the choice.A typical conversation with your average indecisive betch will go something like this: Betch 1: Where do you wanna go for dinner?
It makes them feel powerful to know they can treat you badly, then pick up the phone and still have you available whenever they want. They relish the game of cat and mouse they're playing with you.